Hello, I am 20 years old. Every time when I come with my boyfriend I sprinkle an odorless and colorless liquid. It is bigger quantity before menstruation, there was a time when the liquid squirted half a meter away. If I try to withhold the liquid I can’t orgasm properly. I.e. we cannot have normal sex without being in the bathroom, bathtub or placing towels on the bed. I want to know what is this liquid and can I control it.
What happens to you is called a female ejaculation. Statistically 10-20% of women orgasm like this but most only dream about it. It’s probable that your partner is very young and is not used to such sexuality. Usually, in order to experience this orgasm we need to take more liquids. Therefor we can advise you the contrary – to decrease the water intake before sex. Try with a clitoris, uterus or anal orgasm. You need to change the focus in order to develop your vaginal muscles (they will help you control ejaculation more easily). Usually this liquid is not a problem, it is released by the bladder but is nothing like the urine.